Blessing of the Hands, written by Reverend Daniel L. Harris, is a much loved choice for couples planning a handfasting wedding ceremony. Across many wedding traditions, the joining of hands is one of the most meaningful moments of the day, symbolising connection, commitment and shared intention.
Hands play a central role throughout a wedding ceremony, from being bound together during a handfasting ritual to the exchange of wedding rings, worn as a daily reminder of promises made. This reading reflects on the many ways we use our hands in everyday life to care for one another, offering comfort, reassurance, strength and love. From holding hands and offering support, to moments of tenderness and celebration, it beautifully captures the quiet, practical ways partners show up for one another.
The reading gently reminds couples that their hands represent not just the present moment, but the future they are choosing to build together, united in love, purpose and shared life ahead.
These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow, and forever.
These are the hands that will work alongside yours, as together you build your future.
These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, and with the slightest touch, will comfort you like no other.
These are the hands that will hold you when fear or grief fills your mind.
These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes; tears of sorrow, and tears of joy.
These are the hands that will tenderly hold your children.
These are the hands that will help you to hold your family as one.
These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it.
And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged, will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.